Why the Hell do all the gays I know bitch about how hard it is to come out? I came out, as a bisexual. To be honest my friends were more freaked out when I left a steady lesbian relationship for my current boyfriend. Her friends, our mutual friends, even some of my friends suddenly hated me for the unspeakable transgression of dating someone of the OPPOSITE SEX. Gasp! What a horrible thing! Well guess what jerks, you’re just as predjudiced as the people who hate you. I love him for who he is, not his gender, so LEAVE US ALONE.